Archive for December, 2011

Merry Christmas!

May your day be filled with peace and joy…

A man’s traditional role was to take care of his family.
A woman’s traditional role was to take care of her family.
I must be blind. I can’t see the inequality in this.

And it’s not men.

It’s YOU!

It’s whispered about in corners by women too afraid to take on the feminists—or too selfish to do anything about it.  Women concerned about our more violent and dangerous society discuss it.  Men blog about it and do radical things like join an MRA (or MRM)-or worse, they refuse to get married (OH THE HUMANITY OF IT ALL!) to women when women are “ready” to force men into make a soul kills union devised to steal their money commitment.  Most people are too absorbed in their daily struggle to “survive” in this modern cutler to bother to open up their eyes and take a look at what’s going on around them.  Sure, we have food and shelter—often times handed to us if we can’t get it on our own, but the survival I am talking about here is the mental breakdown of good people that prevents them from functioning at any real capacity beneficial to society.

It’s all over the media about how women are still oppressed.  Men are jerks or buffoons or what have you in a negative context.

But…

…What about the men?

Being a man once meant something.  Few males and an almost nonexistent number of females ever reached the status of “Being a Man.”  Historically it meant more than living a life of luxury and privilege and nothing was ever handed to them.  Good men, the type of men male and females think of as a sucker, all had one common trait:  The willingness to sacrifice all of the betterment of all. It meant doing the work others did not (could/would not) want to do. It meant sacrificing self to the betterment of EVERYONE else.  Yes, the men were given great rewards—one of those rewards was having greater access to sex.  But they were making the biggest sacrifices—including their lives.  Some made the risk and lost everything. Others made the risk and gained much for themselves and their society at large.

Fast forward to the modern world—more specifically Western Culture.  The feminist movement happened and cannot be taken back.  It helped to rectify injustices in the world, but it created—yes created—many others.

Women today (No, I will not make the exception rule here because everyone of us [women] is living life off the hard unappreciated labor AND sacrifice of a man somewhere) enjoy many things about this strange and unnatural modern life.

We for the most part seem safe—and if we are not we don’t have to depend on a man to protect us.  We have state institutions to take care of it for us.  Which interestingly enough are fields dominated by—oh, you guessed it!  MEN!

We enjoy greater access to education—education that goes mostly to waste when the woman decides she is going to stay home to raise her children and then is grossly over qualified for the part time work she decides to do once the kiddies are shipped off to school.  We can easily get government grants and scholarships so we don’t have to pay these large learning facilities our tuition, if we can’t get someone to pay for all of it, then we have greater access to school loans.  Once we are done with our over-glorified education we settle into a career that MUST maintain our rate of pay after we’ve taken several years off to get married and start a family—otherwise men are getting paid more, even if they kept working those four to six years, and we can’t have men being paid more for doing more work, now can we?

We [women] have the choice to work or not.  It doesn’t matter which we choose.  A man or the government will step into pay our bills and make sure our basic needs and the needs of our children are met.  The most heavily taxed gender in our society is MALE—why?  Because they are the higher wage earners—regardless of how many opportunities women are given to become Quantum Physicist, they just aren’t flocking to the opportunities-even when dressed up with pretty pink bows.  The highest paid fields in the job market require one of two things—or both:  A great sacrifice of time and personal relationships or great personal/physical safety risk.

Men will do these jobs because they don’t have the choices women have.  They can either work, or they can become homeless and/or die.  I am not going to derogate the plight of men in this culture by wailing about the homeless women and children when the simple fact is men are the vast majority of the homeless.  While it is sad, there are already many programs out there to help them [women and children] and they are not blamed for their circumstances in life—men are, even when they didn’t create it.

Men on the other hand must work. No one is going to give them a hand out or come save them for their poor circumstances.  Add in a woman or child into his life and someone might help a bit—for the sake of the woman or the child, but never for the sake of the man.

We live in an overly feminized society which is not conducive to making GOOD men.

What is a good man?

Other than a man’s willingness to sacrifice everything women take for granted as being part of a satisfying, well balanced, self-fulfilling life?  Other than sacrificing his health?  Other than sacrificing possible close relationships? His bank account?  His life?  All while not complaining about his lot in life?

They are honorable men who accept the responsibilities placed on them by society.  They don’t sleep around.  They don’t abandon their children.  They don’t fight about everything.  They have self-control.  They think about and do helpful things for their loved ones—even when they don’t want to.   In short, it’s everything a woman says she wants in a man, but won’t go for because he’s “boring.”

In the past few days I have noticed something rather disturbing about people—women especially.

All this talk about being equal as created a very bad situation.

Men didn’t want to leave their world and go to a woman’s world.  So they left it to us—because we were good at it.  We as women, decided to infiltrate theirs, and then we cried when they [the men] treated us [the women] as equals.  Men aren’t nice to each other in the real world before feminism.  You either bit and clawed and fought your way to the top or you didn’t. It was entirely based on if you were strong enough mentally and/or physically to get to the top.  Women entered the work force and decided men needed to play by our rules because we couldn’t hack theirs.  Then we decided we had to force them into ours—which is ironic considering it was men who invented all the wonderful appliances we have that made our lives so much easier that we now had time to go out and find a “real” job.

They had to be nice to us.  They couldn’t treat us the way they treated other men who they considered “equal.”  We wanted to be in their world and still maintain our “right” to respect and gentle treatment.  They were expected to consider us equal but treat us better than they treated each other. How is that equal?

Men of the bygone eras respected women because they were women-it was automatic and something a woman didn’t have to work to get.  Men didn’t get any kind of automatic respect or deferential treatment from each other.  They had to earn it through merit and ability.

They have to continually prove to themselves and to everyone around them that they STILL deserve the title of man.  It’s how it works in a man’s world.  Women didn’t like it when they entered that world and have quite frankly, F’ed it up for the rest of us because they thought in a man’s world they should still get the automatic respect they freely gave to women.

Our society has become a spiraling cesspool of overemotional, self-centric BAD males.

I have to stop and make a critical distinction here.  Good Men and BAD males are two different things.  Good Men are mostly not seen because they silently keep working hard in the background doing what their society and their families need them to do.  They are quietly started to mobilize, though.  Angry men don’t sit around in therapy and talk about it.  They make a plan and do something about it.

BAD males however, are another story—and what’s worse, women are letting these vile creatures take over the world in the most mind boggling way possible.  They aspire to be and to be with BAD males.

They cheat.

They steal.

They murder.

They rape.

They commit crimes.

They abandon their spouse.

They abandon their children.

They flip their finger and societal conventions because it makes them behave!  And then cry about having to have a right to whatever it is they WANT to do as opposed to what they should be doing.

They list goes on and on—we all know what the problems of society are.

Women think it’s equal they have the right to sleep around, abandon their husbands on a whim and then steal all of their ex-spouses possessions and children.

Where is the equality in this? Socialism didn’t work in Russia and I doubt it’s going to work here—only it’s not the government using it to oppress the people.

Its women using it to make themselves “More Equal” than men.

I have a good solution.

Man up, babe! You wanted to be in a man’s world.  Suck it up and deal with it!  You want respect—go out and earn it like every other man is expected to do.