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SlutWalk’s Message and What it is telling Rapists.

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The message of RapeWalk SlutWalk is women shouldn’t be responsible for their own safety and they should be allowed to behave however they please without natural consequences.

Men being the physically large and stronger gender have a physical advantage over women.  They are able to beat and rape women—and yet, not all men are rapists or women beaters.

There is a constant psychological attack on men today.  They are all worthless lowlifes we don’t need.  I don’t need to ramble off statistical information for everyone to know rape and violence are on the rise.  Every year more and more women are being beaten and raped.  Nothing women or law enforcement does stems the carnage.  It is getting worse and women continue to shout absurdities like this:

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If you can’t see the image it says “Sluts Say Yes” in big bold letters.

One would to presume the carrier of this sign identifies herself as a slut.  If “sluts say yes”, then why is she complaining when a rapist takes her up on her invention when she looks like a slut?

Obviously no woman asks to be raped.  That is common sense. Just as locking doors, not giving questionable men your home address, and never walking alone after dark are logical precautions for one’s safety, but apparently, how one dresses isn’t supposed to matter—but, proven time and time again, it’s the ease of target that gets a woman raped.  If I am wearing say blue jeans when a rapist is on the prowl is he likely to rape me when the girl next to me isn’t wearing panties under her skirt?  Who is going to be easier to rape?

Deb Singh spoke at SultWalk Toronto. Saying things such as “We are women and if we could prevent rape, we would!” and “The only people who can stop violence are the ones who act in violent ways and sexually assault women.”

Well, the first statement is true.  Women cannot stop rape and violence against women.

The second statement is blatantly false.  Men who sexually assault women are not going to stop rape, BUT real men can stop rape and violence against women.

However, men in general are caring less and less if women are beaten and raped.  Because, as we’ve told them so many times, “We don’t need them.”  In fact we hate them.  This mentality has permeated throughout modern cultures like wildfire.  Who hasn’t heard “All men are evil.”   “All men are dogs.”  “Men are stupid.”   “Men are worthless.”   “Women don’t need men.”  “Men are useless.”  “Men are only good as sperm donors.”

Who hasn’t laughed at a good man joke?  “How do you know when a man is lying?”  says one woman. “He is talking!” Shouts another.  The women laugh.  Men HAVE to laugh or they are sexist pigs.

The Toronto Police officer has been shamed into being the “sexist pig” for daring to utter such an offending and absurd statement as “don’t dress like a slut.”  When telling women how to protect themselves.  He is a man who can stop rape and violence against women, and yet, we must horrifically and publically shame him for stating the obvious.

We don’t lock doors to keep the honest people out.

We don’t cover up to keep non-rapist from raping us.

When men are told to stop caring about us because we don’t care about them, why should they bother to keep us from being raped when it puts them at risk?  What man is going to advise women what to do to prevent herself from being hurt when he’s shamed for it?  What man is going to care if a women dressed like a slut gets raped when “Sluts Say Yes?” After all, she is a slut and should be allowed to dress however she damn well pleases and to hell with the consequences of her own actions.

A personal story…

Every Tuesday night my oppressive [protective] husband allows me to go to a local biker bar where my father plays keyboard for the band who plays there. It’s a fun—safe—atmosphere that gets me out of the house and mingling with other adults without my husband tagging along.  Yes, my parents are there, but that’s irrelevant.  My mother and I have been doing girl night for years, and listening to a live band at the local bar once a week is fun.  I tend to be a home body, and it’s difficult to get me out the door if I don’t feel safe with what I am doing and where I am going.   My husband encourages me to go and have fun.  And I do.

The last couple of weeks a man had decided he wanted the women there to dance with him.  It doesn’t matter who she is. He makes his way around the bar demanding anyone with breasts dance with him. It was becoming obnoxious and making the women at the bar feel uncomfortable—obviously a man who doesn’t understand no means no.  A scary situation to be in—expect—I was at a bar with people (other men) who know and care about me on a personal level.  The first week I didn’t walk out to my car alone. The second week I sat in a different spot then where I usually do to avoid this man who does not understand no.  The third week everyone at the bar had enough.  My mother asked my father to speak with this man who cannot understand no.  My father said only six words to this man.

“The girls don’t want to dance.”

The man didn’t ask anyone to dance with him for the rests of the night. One man told him to stop his unwanted behavior and it magically stopped…

Women can’t stop male predators.  The ones with the power to stop male predators are non-predatory males. If a non-predatory male tells a woman to not dressing like a slut if she hopes to avoid being raped…why is this wrong?  Why is he so publically humiliated and shamed by women for stating something that is OBVIOUS?  We need him to stop violence against women. We need him to stop sexual assault, and when he gives advice, we shake our finger at him and tell him he’s not being sensitive of our need to dress like sluts.  SHAME ON HIM!

WTF?  Does the need to be free also encompass the need to be stupid?

Women need to collectively pull their heads out of their asses and take good look around them. We’re all going to end up beaten and raped if we continue to make the men around us stop caring through stupidly defiant attitudes.  Sooner or later the violent rapists are going to get the upper hand and men won’t care enough to help us.

Maybe the guy being offensive isn’t trying to be oppressive as much as protective?   Sorry your poor little feelings were hurt, honey, but you must obviously not care too much about preventing your own rape if your need to bare your ass in public is more important than your safety.  Why the hell should the cop care if you get rapped or not when you obviously don’t—until it happens, and then, well, it was his fault for not being there to protect you.

I know. I’ve never been raped, so I don’t understand.  But wait…I listen to this oppressive advice and I’ve never been raped…could there be a coalition there…naw, impossible…

The message of RapeWalk SlutWalk is clear: I will do what I want and when the natural consequences play out I always have a man to blame and hate.

The rapist see Sluts Say Yes and now it’s open season on women with a built in defense. She was dressed like a slut, officer, and Sluts Say Yes! I didn’t know she didn’t want it…

Before you know it we’ll have to be dressed in a burqa to keep away the Sluts Say Yes Defense when an animal does get a hold of us.  That just make me so liberated.  Now I HAVE to be completely covered so I don’t look like a Slut Saying Yes!!

Did You Just Call Me A Slut?

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Slut (slut)
n.
1.
a. A person, especially a woman, considered sexually promiscuous.
b. A woman prostitute.

Or from Wikipedia “Although the ultimate origin of slut is unknown. It first appeared in Middle English in 1402 as slutte (AHD), with the meaning “a dirty, untidy, or slovenly woman.”

Has anyone else heard of this new absurdity?  SlutWalk

It’s the new…I am not even sure what to call it, I am guessing protest?  And I am not sure what for.  I try to keep my political and religious affiliations to myself when in mixed company. It keeps heated arguments limited, but I cannot do this any longer.

I am a Christian conservative. I can’t help it. I was raised that way.  After finding that little “gold mine” about SlutWalks, I have to say, I literally went to my father and thanked him profusely for raising me in a Patriarchal Oppressive environment.

A little bit of history about myself.  I married at the age of twenty.  I am still married to the same man nearly 13 years later with absolutely no desire to ever divorce him as he reaffirms my faith in the male “oppressive” environment as being easier, happier and safer for women and children—and more specifically saner .  As a Christian woman I believe I am expected to love, honor and obey my husband (Yes, I said obey with a smile on my face) just as I believe my husband is expected to love, cherish and sacrifice himself for me.  My husband upholds his end of the bargain, and I uphold mine up to and including my safety and the safety of our daughters.

I cannot fathom at which point allowing men to believe I or my daughters are sluts at any point will stop or prevent a rapist from hurting us.

If a police officer advises a person to lock their door as a safety precaution, why oh why by all that is sane and local is it offensive to be told not to dress like a slut if one doesn’t wish to be a victim of rape?   If locking the door makes sense to keep the rapist out of my house, well, I’d think the only logical conclusion is if I cover my ass and boobs it will help keep him out of other places I really don’t want him.

Why no, apparently female logic says that I should be allowed to let all my assets hang out for said rapist to oogle and covet and let him know I am going to be an easy rape for him…and then we wonder why a man might think we are stupid.

Am I the only one who sees something wrong with this line of thinking…oh, wait no, my oppressive [protective] father and mother taught me when I was I child I needed to cover my assets to be thought of as a proper women so I’d attract a man who would value those assets later in life.  Lo and behold, said man did value those assets…here comes a tangent…

… because I had an oppressive [logical and sane] upbringing I managed to find myself a GOOD man.  Yes, ladies, there are good men out there.  They won’t marry you if you let your assets hang out. If you’re still wondering where all the good men have gone, look no further, for I do have the answer.  I have him.  Other women like me have him.  The honest, love you until you die and will move mountains if you asked it of him, never be unfaithful, and give up his own life for you kind of man you are looking for is sleeping in bed next to me keeping me warm and safe from the evil men—and other women like me have the same.  We picked them up when we were right out of high school and we’re not divorcing him to let you get your grubby little paws on him and destroy the good men they are with your endless nagging and belittling bullshit…

My oppressive [protective] husband would hurt anyone who called me a dirty, promiscuous woman. He knows exactly who I sleep with—him and only him.  He’d hurt anyone who called his daughters dirty and promiscuous, they are only children and are being raised to respect themselves enough not to want to be called dirty and promiscuous.

Let me let you idiot females in on a tiny little secret, male oppression [protection, sanity, logic—common sense] isn’t the evil you’ve made it out to be.  I am angry I am forced to live in an environment that is unsafe for me and my children because some of you feel you need to have a penis and do a man’s work.  Yeah, yeah, equal rights, equal…equal…equal…bullshit. Yes a woman CAN do some things a man can do, but how many of you actually realize how it is possible for you FEEL like you’ve conquered the man’s domain?  The standards men were upheld too had to be lowered.  Think about that…

We’re placing the safety and prosperity of our society in the hands of LOWER standards…would this be why things aren’t as well made as they used to be…when a man did it?

Thank God my father had the never to be oppressive [protective] and my mother had the wisdom not to leave him for that horrible [desired] quality.   My father showed me what qualities I needed to look for in a good man, and I got one.  My mother showed me how to treat a good man and he is so in love with me I never have to worry about him being unfaithful or abandoning me and my children.  This oppressive [moral] lifestyle makes me feel safe and secure…and surprise, surprise, it gives me the kind of loving and fulfilling relationship most women would give an arm to possess.

With all this oppression [protection] I have never been hit. I have never been raped.  My girls have never been hit. My girls have never been raped.  We are loved and GIVEN everything we need and a lot of what we want. We are safe because we have someone who has a vested interest in our personal safety looking out for us.  The only thing this man wants in return is for me to love him in the way he needs to be loved as a man.  I will not prescribe to anything that compromises my safety or the safety of his children. It would be a disgusting slap in the face for every ounce of sweat, blood and time he’s put into our well-being and security.

Do not call me a slut.  Do not call my daughters sluts.

If this is what women’s liberation and Modern feminism is all about, then count me out.
Thanks for the “liberation.”  You can take it back.

While you’re all still wondering why evil men are beating and raping you I will be safely at home with my loving husband who has more respect for me than to call me a slut.

Smoking E-volution

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We all know I am a smoker.

What you may not know, is that my lungs don’t handle it very well.

Still, this is one of those points where I get a TSTL badge. (For those who don’t know, TSTL =  To Stupid To Live)

I’ve tried just about everything to quit, including Chantix which has a side effect of suicide, has killed 100 people  and is approved by the FDA.  Anyway, the statistics for quitting smoking aren’t very good.  Even with Big Pharma approved methods, the success rate is only about 5%.

The problem?

Smokers LIKE to smoke. There is a whole pattern of behavior and everything that goes along with the addiction, which, every other method to quit doesn’t take into account.

So what’s the new smoking e-volution?

Electronic cigarettes, of course.  Doesn’t everything else we do need a gadget?  Yes, it does. and smoking should too, at least from the information I was able to gather on the topic.

One report done in New Zealand shows that e-cigs (Electronic Cigs) are safe enough for the “smoker” to smoke anywhere and still be in compliance with their no public smoking laws.  Yep, that’s right folks, imagine a world where you don’t have to go out into the cold to get your nic fix and not harm anyone with your stinky, yucky second hand smoke!  Want to see for yourself?  Click here to read the report.  Not only that, but every ingredient in the nicotine cartridges IS FDA approved for human consumption, including Propylene Glycol (The substance in antifreeze everyone apposed to keeping this product on the market screams about)  Sorry to burst your bubble, but Propylene Glycol is in our food. It’s a hummusent and a preservative. Its already in tobacco, and it doesn’t enter the air from an e-cigarette.  Deal with it.  E-cigs are MUCH healthier than a conventional tobacco cig, but don’t let the FDA catch you saying that!  They haven’t tested it yet!  Um, hello, idiots!  No flame = no smoke = better for you. Not only that, but there are no tars and the other nasty stuff found in cigarette smoke is reduced to either be none existent or trace amounts so small the FDA approves of them being in their approved products!

The concept of the e-cigarette is a personal nebulizer (the miniature version of what asthma patients use to help them breathe better)  with a cartridge that contains a mixture of flavor, Propylene Glycol and nicotine (FDA approved nicotine used in all other quit smoking products).  I am not going to get into the technical here, because I am not good at it, but the idea is you puff on the e-cig.  There is a small heating element that vaporizes the fluid inside the cartridge to produce the nicotine vapor that is then inhaled by the “smoker” and exhales air safe enough for other people to breathe.

Good deal, right?

Yeah, that’s what I was thinking, so I am jumping on the band wagon and plan to be fully tobacco smoke free the day after it arrives.  How do I know this is going to work for me? I’ve already tried one.  My younger brother let me test his out, which produced a crap load of whining from me about not being able to  have my own right NOW!!

Now for the legal crap.

If you are under the age of 18 or are a non-smoker, don’t!  It’s that simple.  Even if this product (That has been on the market for the last seven years.  During which time approximately 2,800,000 people have died due to smoked tobacco related illnesses and 0 (that is Zero) have died from electronic cigarettes) is a safe way to obtain a nic fix, don’t start just because it’s safe. Use common sense here people.  You still have to buy the product which costs money and nicotine is addictive.  Why be stupid when you’re already smarter than me for not starting in the first place.

We good?

We better be.  No nicotine for anyone under 18 and don’t start if you haven’t already if you’re adult or I’ll be sending you your own TSTL badge.

Ok, so, this is product I am getting.  V2 Ultimate Kit.

I’ll keep you updated on how it all turns out.