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And it’s not men.

It’s YOU!

It’s whispered about in corners by women too afraid to take on the feminists—or too selfish to do anything about it.  Women concerned about our more violent and dangerous society discuss it.  Men blog about it and do radical things like join an MRA (or MRM)-or worse, they refuse to get married (OH THE HUMANITY OF IT ALL!) to women when women are “ready” to force men into make a soul kills union devised to steal their money commitment.  Most people are too absorbed in their daily struggle to “survive” in this modern cutler to bother to open up their eyes and take a look at what’s going on around them.  Sure, we have food and shelter—often times handed to us if we can’t get it on our own, but the survival I am talking about here is the mental breakdown of good people that prevents them from functioning at any real capacity beneficial to society.

It’s all over the media about how women are still oppressed.  Men are jerks or buffoons or what have you in a negative context.

But…

…What about the men?

Being a man once meant something.  Few males and an almost nonexistent number of females ever reached the status of “Being a Man.”  Historically it meant more than living a life of luxury and privilege and nothing was ever handed to them.  Good men, the type of men male and females think of as a sucker, all had one common trait:  The willingness to sacrifice all of the betterment of all. It meant doing the work others did not (could/would not) want to do. It meant sacrificing self to the betterment of EVERYONE else.  Yes, the men were given great rewards—one of those rewards was having greater access to sex.  But they were making the biggest sacrifices—including their lives.  Some made the risk and lost everything. Others made the risk and gained much for themselves and their society at large.

Fast forward to the modern world—more specifically Western Culture.  The feminist movement happened and cannot be taken back.  It helped to rectify injustices in the world, but it created—yes created—many others.

Women today (No, I will not make the exception rule here because everyone of us [women] is living life off the hard unappreciated labor AND sacrifice of a man somewhere) enjoy many things about this strange and unnatural modern life.

We for the most part seem safe—and if we are not we don’t have to depend on a man to protect us.  We have state institutions to take care of it for us.  Which interestingly enough are fields dominated by—oh, you guessed it!  MEN!

We enjoy greater access to education—education that goes mostly to waste when the woman decides she is going to stay home to raise her children and then is grossly over qualified for the part time work she decides to do once the kiddies are shipped off to school.  We can easily get government grants and scholarships so we don’t have to pay these large learning facilities our tuition, if we can’t get someone to pay for all of it, then we have greater access to school loans.  Once we are done with our over-glorified education we settle into a career that MUST maintain our rate of pay after we’ve taken several years off to get married and start a family—otherwise men are getting paid more, even if they kept working those four to six years, and we can’t have men being paid more for doing more work, now can we?

We [women] have the choice to work or not.  It doesn’t matter which we choose.  A man or the government will step into pay our bills and make sure our basic needs and the needs of our children are met.  The most heavily taxed gender in our society is MALE—why?  Because they are the higher wage earners—regardless of how many opportunities women are given to become Quantum Physicist, they just aren’t flocking to the opportunities-even when dressed up with pretty pink bows.  The highest paid fields in the job market require one of two things—or both:  A great sacrifice of time and personal relationships or great personal/physical safety risk.

Men will do these jobs because they don’t have the choices women have.  They can either work, or they can become homeless and/or die.  I am not going to derogate the plight of men in this culture by wailing about the homeless women and children when the simple fact is men are the vast majority of the homeless.  While it is sad, there are already many programs out there to help them [women and children] and they are not blamed for their circumstances in life—men are, even when they didn’t create it.

Men on the other hand must work. No one is going to give them a hand out or come save them for their poor circumstances.  Add in a woman or child into his life and someone might help a bit—for the sake of the woman or the child, but never for the sake of the man.

We live in an overly feminized society which is not conducive to making GOOD men.

What is a good man?

Other than a man’s willingness to sacrifice everything women take for granted as being part of a satisfying, well balanced, self-fulfilling life?  Other than sacrificing his health?  Other than sacrificing possible close relationships? His bank account?  His life?  All while not complaining about his lot in life?

They are honorable men who accept the responsibilities placed on them by society.  They don’t sleep around.  They don’t abandon their children.  They don’t fight about everything.  They have self-control.  They think about and do helpful things for their loved ones—even when they don’t want to.   In short, it’s everything a woman says she wants in a man, but won’t go for because he’s “boring.”

In the past few days I have noticed something rather disturbing about people—women especially.

All this talk about being equal as created a very bad situation.

Men didn’t want to leave their world and go to a woman’s world.  So they left it to us—because we were good at it.  We as women, decided to infiltrate theirs, and then we cried when they [the men] treated us [the women] as equals.  Men aren’t nice to each other in the real world before feminism.  You either bit and clawed and fought your way to the top or you didn’t. It was entirely based on if you were strong enough mentally and/or physically to get to the top.  Women entered the work force and decided men needed to play by our rules because we couldn’t hack theirs.  Then we decided we had to force them into ours—which is ironic considering it was men who invented all the wonderful appliances we have that made our lives so much easier that we now had time to go out and find a “real” job.

They had to be nice to us.  They couldn’t treat us the way they treated other men who they considered “equal.”  We wanted to be in their world and still maintain our “right” to respect and gentle treatment.  They were expected to consider us equal but treat us better than they treated each other. How is that equal?

Men of the bygone eras respected women because they were women-it was automatic and something a woman didn’t have to work to get.  Men didn’t get any kind of automatic respect or deferential treatment from each other.  They had to earn it through merit and ability.

They have to continually prove to themselves and to everyone around them that they STILL deserve the title of man.  It’s how it works in a man’s world.  Women didn’t like it when they entered that world and have quite frankly, F’ed it up for the rest of us because they thought in a man’s world they should still get the automatic respect they freely gave to women.

Our society has become a spiraling cesspool of overemotional, self-centric BAD males.

I have to stop and make a critical distinction here.  Good Men and BAD males are two different things.  Good Men are mostly not seen because they silently keep working hard in the background doing what their society and their families need them to do.  They are quietly started to mobilize, though.  Angry men don’t sit around in therapy and talk about it.  They make a plan and do something about it.

BAD males however, are another story—and what’s worse, women are letting these vile creatures take over the world in the most mind boggling way possible.  They aspire to be and to be with BAD males.

They cheat.

They steal.

They murder.

They rape.

They commit crimes.

They abandon their spouse.

They abandon their children.

They flip their finger and societal conventions because it makes them behave!  And then cry about having to have a right to whatever it is they WANT to do as opposed to what they should be doing.

They list goes on and on—we all know what the problems of society are.

Women think it’s equal they have the right to sleep around, abandon their husbands on a whim and then steal all of their ex-spouses possessions and children.

Where is the equality in this? Socialism didn’t work in Russia and I doubt it’s going to work here—only it’s not the government using it to oppress the people.

Its women using it to make themselves “More Equal” than men.

I have a good solution.

Man up, babe! You wanted to be in a man’s world.  Suck it up and deal with it!  You want respect—go out and earn it like every other man is expected to do.

I am woman!  Hear me roar!

It’s a slogan we’ve grown up with.  One that is supposed to empower women to be their best—what has all this empowering really done to women?

From my own observations I can determine one of two things:

1) You’ve become a whining, bitching, rather unpleased shrew no wants to be around but everyone gives into your entitlements[childish demands] just to get you to shut the hell up.
2) You’ve become a profession victim who must victimize everyone with your survival stories over and over again until they realize just how very important and special you are so you can begin to receive you entitlements[merit you never earned].

In other words, you’ve become a person no one wants to be around and no one can love.

The Empowered Woman is really a euphemism for Female Supremacy.

Oh, there are still young men and men who’ve become so emasculated by today’s culture who sadly still buy into the “oppressed” women bullshit.  They are unable to see though the illusion of the depraved and twisted version of women today to see what a real womanhood is all about.  They try valiantly, but vainly to give into your every want and wish.  Their reward is to be called a worthless pieces of shit and then kicked out the door to try again until you are so enraged at him you absolutely cannot feel good about yourself until you’ve completely shattered his life. You’ve taken his money, his home, his children and his dignity because after all, it’s your right. You didn’t bother to put anything into the relationship because it was all his responsibility, and now you deserve to have every ounce of his blood, sweat and tears because you are a woman and are entitled to it.

Sorry, princess, I’m here to call bullshit. You don’t deserve anything from him.  Grow up. Put on the big girl panties and start taking responsibly for your own life.  All that hatred and misery you’re feeling is not coming from him, it’s coming from the person you see in the mirror while you’re primping to set up your next victim.

It’s women like you that buy into the Feminist Marxism who are the oppressors of men, women and children—you are the true abusers who must be stopped. Your selfish “it’s all about me” endeavors destroy the good men out there until the only ones available are jaded misogynists.  You’ve created this twisted wonderland of putrid master-slave couplings.  You whip every man into his rightful slave position and then wonder why he’s left you in seething hatred.

Real respect is earned.  It cannot be given without merit.

Real love is sacrificing. Love cannot be any other way.

A difficult concept for most women to begin to understand, but that is vital if you don’t want the falling pendulum to go too far in the opposite direction.

The power of woman is lost.  Feminism has turned women into twisted perversions of  the lowliest of humans.  The once protected and cherished have become the oppressors.  Feminism is a self fulfilling prophecy.  The woman hatred is building.  The oppression of woman might not be far behind.

You have to do your own research.  You won’t believe me. Like me, you have to find out for yourself what women have been doing to men for the last 30-40 years.

I am willfully turning my back on feminist and their ideology.  My purpose in life is to uplift my husband; to raise our children to be proud, moral and upstanding women of the world.  My job is to teach my children how to embrace love and justice.  My very nature is to give love and to receive love.  Before my heart could not receive it because I did not understand how to give it in return.  I am entitled to nothing, but all that I need is freely given to me.  I just had to learn to accept it.

I am woman!  I am loved!

The message of RapeWalk SlutWalk is women shouldn’t be responsible for their own safety and they should be allowed to behave however they please without natural consequences.

Men being the physically large and stronger gender have a physical advantage over women.  They are able to beat and rape women—and yet, not all men are rapists or women beaters.

There is a constant psychological attack on men today.  They are all worthless lowlifes we don’t need.  I don’t need to ramble off statistical information for everyone to know rape and violence are on the rise.  Every year more and more women are being beaten and raped.  Nothing women or law enforcement does stems the carnage.  It is getting worse and women continue to shout absurdities like this:

If you can’t see the image it says “Sluts Say Yes” in big bold letters.

One would to presume the carrier of this sign identifies herself as a slut.  If “sluts say yes”, then why is she complaining when a rapist takes her up on her invention when she looks like a slut?

Obviously no woman asks to be raped.  That is common sense. Just as locking doors, not giving questionable men your home address, and never walking alone after dark are logical precautions for one’s safety, but apparently, how one dresses isn’t supposed to matter—but, proven time and time again, it’s the ease of target that gets a woman raped.  If I am wearing say blue jeans when a rapist is on the prowl is he likely to rape me when the girl next to me isn’t wearing panties under her skirt?  Who is going to be easier to rape?

Deb Singh spoke at SultWalk Toronto. Saying things such as “We are women and if we could prevent rape, we would!” and “The only people who can stop violence are the ones who act in violent ways and sexually assault women.”

Well, the first statement is true.  Women cannot stop rape and violence against women.

The second statement is blatantly false.  Men who sexually assault women are not going to stop rape, BUT real men can stop rape and violence against women.

However, men in general are caring less and less if women are beaten and raped.  Because, as we’ve told them so many times, “We don’t need them.”  In fact we hate them.  This mentality has permeated throughout modern cultures like wildfire.  Who hasn’t heard “All men are evil.”   “All men are dogs.”  “Men are stupid.”   “Men are worthless.”   “Women don’t need men.”  “Men are useless.”  “Men are only good as sperm donors.”

Who hasn’t laughed at a good man joke?  “How do you know when a man is lying?”  says one woman. “He is talking!” Shouts another.  The women laugh.  Men HAVE to laugh or they are sexist pigs.

The Toronto Police officer has been shamed into being the “sexist pig” for daring to utter such an offending and absurd statement as “don’t dress like a slut.”  When telling women how to protect themselves.  He is a man who can stop rape and violence against women, and yet, we must horrifically and publically shame him for stating the obvious.

We don’t lock doors to keep the honest people out.

We don’t cover up to keep non-rapist from raping us.

When men are told to stop caring about us because we don’t care about them, why should they bother to keep us from being raped when it puts them at risk?  What man is going to advise women what to do to prevent herself from being hurt when he’s shamed for it?  What man is going to care if a women dressed like a slut gets raped when “Sluts Say Yes?” After all, she is a slut and should be allowed to dress however she damn well pleases and to hell with the consequences of her own actions.

A personal story…

Every Tuesday night my oppressive [protective] husband allows me to go to a local biker bar where my father plays keyboard for the band who plays there. It’s a fun—safe—atmosphere that gets me out of the house and mingling with other adults without my husband tagging along.  Yes, my parents are there, but that’s irrelevant.  My mother and I have been doing girl night for years, and listening to a live band at the local bar once a week is fun.  I tend to be a home body, and it’s difficult to get me out the door if I don’t feel safe with what I am doing and where I am going.   My husband encourages me to go and have fun.  And I do.

The last couple of weeks a man had decided he wanted the women there to dance with him.  It doesn’t matter who she is. He makes his way around the bar demanding anyone with breasts dance with him. It was becoming obnoxious and making the women at the bar feel uncomfortable—obviously a man who doesn’t understand no means no.  A scary situation to be in—expect—I was at a bar with people (other men) who know and care about me on a personal level.  The first week I didn’t walk out to my car alone. The second week I sat in a different spot then where I usually do to avoid this man who does not understand no.  The third week everyone at the bar had enough.  My mother asked my father to speak with this man who cannot understand no.  My father said only six words to this man.

“The girls don’t want to dance.”

The man didn’t ask anyone to dance with him for the rests of the night. One man told him to stop his unwanted behavior and it magically stopped…

Women can’t stop male predators.  The ones with the power to stop male predators are non-predatory males. If a non-predatory male tells a woman to not dressing like a slut if she hopes to avoid being raped…why is this wrong?  Why is he so publically humiliated and shamed by women for stating something that is OBVIOUS?  We need him to stop violence against women. We need him to stop sexual assault, and when he gives advice, we shake our finger at him and tell him he’s not being sensitive of our need to dress like sluts.  SHAME ON HIM!

WTF?  Does the need to be free also encompass the need to be stupid?

Women need to collectively pull their heads out of their asses and take good look around them. We’re all going to end up beaten and raped if we continue to make the men around us stop caring through stupidly defiant attitudes.  Sooner or later the violent rapists are going to get the upper hand and men won’t care enough to help us.

Maybe the guy being offensive isn’t trying to be oppressive as much as protective?   Sorry your poor little feelings were hurt, honey, but you must obviously not care too much about preventing your own rape if your need to bare your ass in public is more important than your safety.  Why the hell should the cop care if you get rapped or not when you obviously don’t—until it happens, and then, well, it was his fault for not being there to protect you.

I know. I’ve never been raped, so I don’t understand.  But wait…I listen to this oppressive advice and I’ve never been raped…could there be a coalition there…naw, impossible…

The message of RapeWalk SlutWalk is clear: I will do what I want and when the natural consequences play out I always have a man to blame and hate.

The rapist see Sluts Say Yes and now it’s open season on women with a built in defense. She was dressed like a slut, officer, and Sluts Say Yes! I didn’t know she didn’t want it…

Before you know it we’ll have to be dressed in a burqa to keep away the Sluts Say Yes Defense when an animal does get a hold of us.  That just make me so liberated.  Now I HAVE to be completely covered so I don’t look like a Slut Saying Yes!!